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简介
A very flawed character trait that results from low confidence and low self-esteem, often due to rejection or a humiliating experience as a child. They feel socially inadequate, causing them to worry about what people think about them. They want to be liked by people and will go out of their way to please others, because they don’t want people mad at them. Insecure people often compare themselves to others to see how they “stack up” against the perceived “competition.” An insecure female will often be controlling in her relationship, because she feels she is not worthy of having her man and, therefore, fears her boyfriend will find a better woman. She gets angry and jealous if another woman only looks at her man in admiration. She will listen in on other people’s conversations to hear if people are talking bad about her, or will read her man’s phone to see if he is betraying her. Insecure people will often insult or bully others to feel better about themselves. They will also lie about their alleged “success” to impress people. Basically, insecure people hide their real self to avoid being rejected or despised, when most of their perceptions are false.